Good News! I was passing by the lake the other day and saw Mom and Dad Goose with seven babies. I guess Mom had been busy creating the nest, laying her eggs and incubating them. I just read how Dad’s job during this time is to watch out for predators, but he doesn’t go near the nest so as not to give the location away to predators.
I am glad Mom and Dad Goose are OK and I look forward to watching their babies grow up. I wanted to share the good news and also some of what I learned after reading up on geese.
Did you know that geese mate for life? They will only look for another mate if their partner dies. Some choose to not to look for another mate and remain solo for the rest of their lives, which can be for as long as 25 years. They look out for each other, refusing to leave the side of a sick or injured mate or gosling’s side. This attachment can come at the expense of his or her own survival, staying with a loved one in need even when the rest of the flock migrates south for the winter.
I also learned how geese are cooperative and supportive of one another. They fly in a “V” format when they migrate and they take turns in the lead, so each goose gets a rest. Geese honk sounds of encouragement to the lead goose so he or she will keep up a good speed.
Acknowledgement goes a long way. Research by Dan Ariel, behavioral economist at Duke University and author of Predictably Irrational, shows that we can improve motivation by acknowledging another’s efforts with a simple “Uh Huh.” Geese instinctually know how recognizing and supporting another’s efforts goes a long way.
Ariel says “Ignoring the performance of people is almost as bad as shredding their effort before their eyes. The good news is that adding motivation doesn’t seem to be so difficult. The bad news is that eliminating motivation seems to be incredibly easy.”
This is important in the work setting, as well as other relationships. Even the smallest gesture can make someone feel energized. A “Thank you for your efforts,” “I really appreciate what you’ve done,” “You really helped me out” or a high-five has a positive impact. If you can be specific about what you’re acknowledging, that’s even better. Next time, if you want to appreciate the efforts of your partner or friend or even salesperson, try honking at them. J
Here’s an interesting TedTalk by Dan Ariely about what makes us feel good about our work:
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